On dieting

I'm quoting from another blog.  Click on the links, the blog is worth reading.  The bottom line is that the moment you start cheating it swallows everything else.

Unprocessed Food Diet (Again)

01.20.2012 · Posted in diet and nutrition, food, health

Photo by adactio via flickr

I’m back on my Unprocessed Food Diet (UFD). I had been maintaining my weight under 190 for a while, but over the past year, my eating habits deteriorated. My once a week cheat days on the slow carb diet became cheat weekends. Then I started eating badly all the time. It finally got to the point where I was eating fast food again daily, and my weight was going up every week. Add the holidays to the equation and well, I had to change things.A few weeks ago, I started a fitness boot camp at my gym. As has sometimes happened in the past, over the first couple of weeks, my eating habits actually got worse and this Monday, I peaked at 198.8, at least 25 pounds over where I’d like to be. So I decided to put myself back on the UFD and continue working out. (more…)

On Arbitration -- A primer

I'm locked out of my website's directory system (some sort of system change), so I'm posting this here, it will go on-line there as soon as that gets debugged.

Arbitration Primer
 ©2012 Judy Larkins of USADR, Inc.

Arbitration Overview

There are situations that require a binding decision – either from a court - or an arbitrator.   Most people are familiar with a court proceeding, so it begs the question… What is Arbitration?

Arbitration falls under the category of Alternative Dispute Resolution, commonly shortened to ADR.  ADR offers an alternative path for people to resolve their disputes in ways that are outside of the normal legal channels, such as filing a lawsuit in court. 

Arbitration is different than the court system.  It is not a judicial process, even though there is sometimes pressure to treat it as such.  Arbitration sprang from a premise that business and industry disputes may be best resolved outside of a criminal court system.  A general contractor, for instance, may act as an arbitrator in construction disputes.  The contractor has in-depth knowledge of the work and terminology used in the field, so the decision rendered by an industry arbitrator may be very different than a decision by a judge, whose background is steeped in the law.

Arbitration is common in business and commercial contracts.  These are the cases that arbitration was originally designed to address, and they represent the bulk of the cases today.  Arbitration is not generally used in criminal cases.

Using the court system to solve problems is often overkill.  The length of time necessary to get to hearing is often prohibitive.  The legal process is punctuated by formality and is often confusing to non-attorneys.  A business or layperson’s understanding of the Rules of Evidence often prohibits submitting evidence in litigation unless it is done in a narrow, specific way.  Legal formality fosters the need to hire an attorney, which adds to the cost of resolving the dispute, and the dispute itself is usually costly.  It is not uncommon for litigation to take years!  Additionally, the element of fairness may not be addressed by a judge because judges are bound by both the written law and an extensive body of case law, created over the years by a myriad of past cases that may or may not seemingly apply to your business case.

Arbitration offers a confidential hearing before a neutral decision-maker, often an industry expert, who delivers a binding award with limited appeal after providing the parties with a full and fair hearing.  A “party” can refer to an individual or a business entity such as a corporation or partnership. 

Arbitrators must disclose any known conflict of interest and sign an oath that they have no known bias and can be fair in dealing with the parties and the subject matter in dispute prior to accepting appointment to a case.

In most business contract and commercial cases, arbitration is confidential and the arbitration award is binding with very little opportunity for appeal. Confidentiality is perceived as a tremendous benefit, protecting the reputations of those involved in the dispute.  This is in stark contrast to courts of law, where decisions are published and referred to for years to come.

Lastly, arbitration is not mediation.  Mediation also falls under the category of ADR, and often these terms are used interchangeably due to confusion.  To clarify, mediation is a formal negotiation of the matter and does not have a guaranteed conclusion.   Just like when you offer to buy a car, if the seller doesn’t like the deal, they can walk away.  If the seller likes the deal, they sign a contract and there is a legal consequence – the car’s ownership changes hands.  However, arbitration results in a decision, like it or not.  Arbitration offers a full and fair hearing of each party’s presentation of the evidence and testimony of the parties.  There is a big difference between mediation and arbitration, even though they both fall under the category of Alternative Dispute Resolution |ADR.   

Arbitration History & Current Use

Many of the United States government’s structures and legal concepts were based on the designs of the Greek Republic.    Arbitration is no exception.   Aristotle wrote extensively about the concepts of justice, equity, and the law, specifically addressing arbitration’s ability to provide a measure of fairness that the law may not be able to provide.  Fast forward 2200 years…

The US formally recognized the benefits of arbitration early in the last century, especially its benefits with regard to business transactions.  The Federal Arbitration Act | FAA was enacted in 1925 and places  specific emphasis on business and maritime contracts relating to the purchase, sale and transportation of goods, commercial contracts and the disputes that arise out of the terms and conditions of these types of transactions.    The FAA provides for mandatory, binding arbitration when parties contractually agree.   Interestingly, it limits employment arbitration for railroad workers, sailors and others in cases of dispute.  "Nothing herein contained shall apply to contracts of employment of seamen, railroad employees, or any other class of workers engaged in foreign or interstate commerce."[i][1] Arbitration for criminal cases is not provided for in the FAA.

The FAA provides for the following:

• Defines the types of transactions suitable for arbitration and provides for enforcement of arbitration agreements
• It addresses issues such as jurisdiction, appointment of arbitrators, and grants arbitrators the power to subpoena, with enforcement through the US District court
• The FAA also addresses awards, the confirmation of awards and their limited appeal
• And finally sets the expectation that the state courts will uphold awards

State Arbitration Laws:  State specific arbitration laws have become increasingly common since 1955 when The Uniform Arbitration Act was adopted by the National Conference of Commissioners on Uniform State Laws.  Each of the 50 states may use The Uniform Arbitration Act’s standardized language as a starting point to create and adopt as their own state specific arbitration law, or they may create a state arbitration law that has no basis in the Uniform Arbitration Act.  It is noteworthy that the Federal Arbitration Act tends to be more liberal than individual state arbitration laws, which have become increasingly restrictive in the last few decades; going as far as giving the court the ability to appoint the arbitrator in some states, and retaining jurisdiction in commercial cases to perform a de novo (new) hearing of the evidence when parties challenge the award delivered under their state arbitration laws.   Extremely restrictive laws tend to erode the benefits of arbitration.  In these cases, arbitration becomes essentially a parallel tract to a court proceeding.  All of the entanglements of litigation result in a marked increase of cost, time, and formality across the board.   

Rules of Procedure:  Each arbitration forum publishes their own Rules of Procedure, which are a detailed “rules of the game.”   These rules vary in terms of technical terminology and the level of understandability for the layperson.  There is also variance in terms of formality and rigidity.  If the arbitration provision in the contract is silent on specific rules of procedure or fails to name the specific arbitration forum, then the parties may file with any established forum.  Additionally, parties may choose to use a different forum or set of rules by agreement when the need to arbitrate arises.

Governing Law:  You may be wondering if federal or state law is followed in a particular arbitration proceeding.  Each arbitration provision is unique to the contract, and when an arbitration provision is silent on what governing law is applied, the Federal Arbitration Act is generally applied. 

However, when arbitration is conducted as it was originally intended, it offers valuable benefits.  A carefully constructed arbitration process is an ideal path for resolving disputes, as opposed to litigating a commercial matter in the courts. 

Tenets of Arbitration  

The four basic tenets or principles of arbitration include reduced formality, faster resolution, less financial cost, and fairness and fair process.  

In its pure, original form, Arbitration is designed to be

·         Less Formal than a court proceeding.  Arbitration gives the opportunity for parties to represent themselves before a private decision maker – often an industry expert – who is thereby more familiar and knowledgeable about the subject matter in dispute.  For instance, an engineer may evaluate the testimony and evidence presented by the parties very differently than an attorney or judge, when listening to both sides in a construction dispute. 

·         Reduced formality invites people to present their case.  Many people feel more comfortable in a private, more relaxed setting, than in a formal court of law. 

·         If you are able to speak clearly and maintain your composure under pressure, you may determine that you are able to present your own case and avoid the costs of legal representation.  Attorney’s fees can be significant. 

·         Industry arbitrators recognize that the parties involved in the dispute know the details best, and invite a full and fair hearing according to the priorities of those presenting their case. 

·         The presentation of your case should be based on actual facts, rather than legal theories.

Arbitration accommodates a

·         faster means of resolution, significantly compressing the timeframes that are typically experienced in court.  In contrast to litigation, which can drone on for years, an arbitrated matter can be heard in a matter of months.

A properly designed Arbitration program should

·         save money.  The program should absolutely withstand the scrutiny of a cost/benefit analysis.  In other words, does the claim amount justify the cost to bring the matter to arbitration?  

 The ideal Arbitration process provides for a

·         a more equitable, or FAIR way to resolve disputes.  Arbitration should absolutely keep an eye on fairness and fair process, rather than basing decisions on the letter of the law - or determining the case based upon past decisions of other judges in previous cases.  The arbitrator will consider any case law presented, and let’s face it, case law may or may not be helpful; each case and circumstance is different. 

So why do we keep talking about PURE arbitration and emphasizing its original design?  Because in the last 30 or 40 years, arbitration in the United States has greatly increased in terms of cost and formality, sometimes reflecting the worst excesses of litigation: massive discovery, excessive production of documents, lengthy interrogatories, etc.  These changes have had a pronounced negative impact, eroding many of the original benefits that arbitration was designed to address.

In the recent years, United States Arbitration Association has recognized the need to return to, and focus on, the original values of arbitration. 

United States Arbitration Association Services  

USADR, Inc. offers a less litigious form of dispute resolution that is affordable.  The written rules and procedures are understandable in laymen’s terms.   You don’t have to be an attorney to understand the rules of the game. USADR offers an accessible means of resolving disputes by embracing and promoting the traditional values of arbitration: affordability, expediency, and Equity.

How common is it to be bound by an arbitration agreement? Virtually everyone who conducts business has entered into an agreement to arbitrate.  Arbitration clauses are commonly included in business and commercial contracts - such as credit card agreements, insurance policies, cell phone contracts, internet software terms and conditions, and other legally binding documents.  You may be completely unaware that you have signed an arbitration agreement, so when a dispute arises and you file suit in court, the court will reject your filing and refer you to arbitration instead.

If you have signed an arbitration agreement, you must arbitrate, even when the cost of arbitration exceeds the amount being disputed.

This may present a problem, because the costs of arbitration may climb quickly, and you may not be able, or willing, to bear the necessary fees to see the matter to conclusion.  Currently, most national, established arbitration forums are cost-prohibitive for small to mid-size claims.  It simply does not make financial sense to arbitrate when you must agree to an unlimited expense in exchange for a limited judgment amount.  In addition, the rules of procedure are frequently exhaustive;  written in Legalese that may be confusing to people outside the legal profession.  Many people feel that they have no choice but to hire an attorney to navigate the process, and the fees for representation are added to the administrative costs, as well as the hourly rate for the single arbitrator or panel of 3 arbitrators who act as a private judge, or judges, who are hired to hear the matter and make a decision.

United States Arbitration Association acknowledges the need to provide a means of arbitration that is efficient and contains costs.  We have carefully designed a process that is accessible, thereby paving the way to resolve disputes.

USADR offers 3 types of arbitration: 

·         Documentary Arbitration has been designed for claims under $15,000.  An all-inclusive flat fee per party is assessed for a hearing by a single arbitrator who renders a written simple decision based on the papers.

·         Arbitration by Teleconference addresses claims that are under $75,000.  An all-inclusive flat fee is assessed when the teleconference does not exceed 3 hours.  These matters are heard by a single arbitrator who renders a written, simple decision based on the papers and oral arguments at the Teleconference.

·         Standard Arbitration offers a physical hearing before a single arbitrator, and is designed for large claims that exceed $75,000.  A filing fee is charged per party, with additional costs such as an hourly rate for the arbitrator.  All fees are described in our straight-forward Fee Schedule posted on our website at http://usadr.org.  

The following is an overview of the 3 types of arbitration offered by USADR.  All parties are advised to read USADR Rules of Procedure at the time of filing for further detail.  The Rules of Procedure are posted on our website at http://usadr.org/rules .

The first type of arbitration offered by USADR is Documentary Arbitration, which is designed for claims under $15,000.  There is a per party flat fee to include the administrative filing fee, documentary hearing, and a simple written award.  In addition to the arbitration submission agreement, each party may submit written and digital documentation that supports their claim at the time of filing.  It is customary to provide a copy of the signed contract, a statement of claim, other documents, and any digital photos or video that supports the claim.  The statement of claim should include a detailed chronology of the dispute, any steps taken to resolve the dispute such as a demand letter, mediation or other actions, and a dollar amount that the party wishes to be awarded along with supporting documentation such as receipts, estimates, etc.

The dispute is reviewed based on the documents provided by the parties.  A simple written award is delivered after a single arbitrator reviews the parties’ documentary evidence presented for the case.  The documentary evidence reviewed by the arbitrator should include:

1.       The signed arbitration submission agreement.  

2.       A Written statement of claim submitted by the claimant and the response to the claim submitted by the Respondent.  These statements and responses are a detailed chronology of the dispute from each party’s perspective, along with any attempts made to resolve the matter, and any relief sought by the parties, such as the specific dollar amount and other remedies sought to satisfy the claim.  Keep in mind that the arbitrator cannot grant relief that is not asked for, so be sure to ask for everything you want, including attorney’s fees, interest, etc. 

3.       A copy of the signed contract between the parties that includes the arbitration provision.

4.       Pictures, videos, and notarized witness statements that support the claim or response

5.       Other documents that lend weight to the claim or defense that should be considered by the arbitrator

The second form of arbitration offered by USADR is Arbitration by Teleconference, which has been designed for claims under $75,000. 

There is cost is a per party flat fee to include the administrative filing fee, a 3 hour teleconference hearing, and a simple written award.  If the teleconference exceeds 3 hours, an hourly rate is charge to each party for each hour block that exceeds the 3 hour limit.  In addition to the arbitration submission agreement, each party may submit written and digital documentation that supports their claim at the time of filing.  It is customary to provide a copy of the signed contract, a statement of claim, other documents, and any digital photos or video that supports the claim.  The statement of claim should include a detailed chronology of the dispute, any steps taken to resolve the dispute such as a demand letter, mediation or other actions, and a dollar amount that the party wishes to be awarded along with supporting documentation such as receipts, estimates, etc.

The dispute is heard by a single arbitrator based on the documents and oral arguments of the parties.  A simple written award is delivered.   The arbitrator will hear the presentation of the parties’ case, to include:

1.       The signed arbitration submission agreement.  

2.       A Written statement of claim submitted by the claimant and the response to the claim submitted by the Respondent.  These statements and responses are a detailed chronology of the dispute from each party’s perspective, along with any attempts made to resolve the matter, and any relief sought by the parties, such as the specific dollar amount and other remedies sought to satisfy the claim.  Keep in mind that the arbitrator cannot grant relief that is not asked for, so be sure to ask for everything you want, including attorney’s fees, interest, etc. 

3.       A Copy of the signed contract between the parties that includes the arbitration provision

4.       Pictures, videos, and notarized witness statements that support the claim and response

5.       Other documents that lend weight to the claim and that should be considered

6.       Oral argument by both parties and the presentation of their respective cases at the teleconference

The third type of arbitration offered by USADR is Standard Arbitration with a Physical Hearing, which is offered for claims that exceed $75,000. 

All costs are assessed to each party equally.  The administrative filing fee is paid at the time of filing the arbitration submission agreement.   Additional fees and arbitrator hourly rates apply. 

An initial pre-hearing teleconference is scheduled for the purpose of establishing procedures, setting dates, and resolving any pre-hearing disputes either by the decision of the arbitrator or joint agreement.  The teleconference is usually attended by the arbitrator, the parties and their representatives.   After the teleconference, a scheduling order is issued to the parties by the arbitrator which details the dates and decisions and establishes the amount of the hearing deposit.

All parties are given a full and fair hearing of their evidence and testimony at the physical hearing.  A simple award is rendered unless the parties jointly agree that they want a detailed, reasoned award.

The dispute is heard by a single arbitrator, unless all parties agree that they would like a panel of three arbitrators.  Additional fees apply for a panel of three.  The arbitrator or arbitrators base the decision and award on the documents and oral arguments of the parties.  A simple written award is delivered unless the parties unanimously request a detailed, reasoned award at the time of the filing.   The parties may present:

1.       A Written statement of claim submitted by the claimant and the response to the claim submitted by the Respondent.  These statements and responses are a detailed chronology of the dispute from each party’s perspective, along with any attempts made to resolve the matter, and any relief sought by the parties, such as the specific dollar amount and other remedies sought to satisfy the claim.  Keep in mind that the arbitrator cannot grant relief that is not asked for, so be sure to ask for everything you want, including attorney’s fees, interest, etc. 

2.       A Copy of the signed contract between the parties that includes the arbitration provision

3.       Pictures or videos that support the claim and response

4.       Presentation of witnesses or subpoenaed documents

5.       Other documents that lend weight to the claim and that should be considered

6.       Oral argument and presentation of the case at the physical hearing

United States Arbitration Association is confident that the tiered arbitration services more closely matches the needs of the parties when taking into consideration the cost/benefit analysis of the claim amount.  USADR welcomes your questions, and invites inquiries either addressed to our email  support@usadr.org or by calling us at 303-864-9674.  We take your dispute seriously and are committed to assisting you in gaining resolution so that you are free to get on with your life!

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[1] (United States Code Title 9 Chapter 1).  http://uscode.house.gov/download/pls/Title_09.txt

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Sagas -- Star Wars as a Norse Saga ... more

At one time I read all the Norse Sagas available in translation.

Since then, though ...

First:  Star Wars redone as a Norse Saga (in Norse and in translation back to English).

An excerpt:

A Frisian man accompanied Hólmgöngu-Hani; he was named Tsiubakka. He was the hairiest of men and very big, he had blackish-brown hair and was rather chubby-faced and broad across the brows. Tsiubakka did not know how to speak Norse, but he understood what men said, and Hani spoke Frisian.

One time it so happened that Hani had raided in Norway, and when he was ready to put out to sea, some Norwegian chieftains rode up in that place. They asked who these men were and where they came from.

“I am named Hani Sólósson,” said Hani, “Some call me Hólmgöngu-Hani. And this follower of mine is a Frisian man named Tsiubakka. We have come here from Denmark and we are merchants.

Best begun reading from here:  http://tattuinardoelasaga.wordpress.com/2010/03/01/i-kap/

“Ef it eruð sannarlega kaupdrengir,” segir hǫfðingi, “Þá munuð it hafa vǫrur á skipi ykkar, þær es it vilið selja, ok vér viljum kaupa, ok látið øss sjá varning ykkar.”

Þessir menn gingu síðan upp á skipit, ok þar fundu þeir margar gørsemar, þeim es Hólmgǫngu-Hani ok Tsiubakka hǫfðu stolnar frá þeim. Þessar þeir tóku, ok þeir vildu drepa Hólmgǫngu-Hana.

“Drepið hann eigi,” segir inn fyrsti hǫfðingi, “Því at ek kennda hann í fyrstunni, ok kennda ek fǫður hans ok. Hann es engi vinr Falfaðins konungs, ok erum vér heldr eigi. En vér skulum taka allar þessar vǫrur, þeim es hann stól, ok skulum honum ekki gjalda.”

En því at þat haustaði, ok Hólmgǫngu-Hani hafði ekki ránsfé, þat es hann skyli selja í hendr Jabba konungi, snaraðisk hann sem skjótast við Íslandi ok þar vildi forðask reiði Jabba konungs, unz hann fengi nekkverjan skatt, þann es hann fengi fœrðan konungi.

 Even better is the other material:

https://www.facebook.com/jackson.crawford

The .pdf documents available below contain the Old Norse text of Völuspá or Hávamál, along with a translation of either Eddic poem by me.

Völuspá (often translated “The Seeress’s Prophecy” etc.)

Völuspá with English translation, v. 4.0

Voluspå med norsk umsetjing, v. 4.0 (forklaring her)

Hávamál (often translated “Sayings of the High One” etc.)

Hávamál with English translation, v. 1.5

The Cowboy Hávamál v. 1.0 (explanation here)

What makes these different from other translations you can get online?

1. I teach Old Norse for a living, so I do my translations directly from the original language of the Codex Regius. I’m also not trying to write poetry, so the accuracy of my translations isn’t affected by trying to rhyme or alliterate.

2. I use readable, modern language, devoid of “thee” and “thou,” “wight” and “hight.”

3. Alongside the translation, I print a reconstructed Old Norse text that gives you a look at what the text of the poems might have sounded like ca. 1000 (almost 300 years before they were finally written down).

4. I can update, revise, and add to the text continually in response to my own ideas and those suggested by readers.

 But then, of course, my kids named a pet Kari after Kári Sölmundarson so my perspective is biased.

NTRPGCon - 2012

Copying from:  http://ntrpgcon.com/ -- visit the site for all the essential information.

Last Updated on Wednesday, 07 March 2012 00:06 Written by System Admin Tuesday, 29 June 2010 23:34

Welcome to the North Texas RPG Convention! The NTRPG Con focuses on old-school Dungeons & Dragons gaming (OD&D, 1E, 2E, or Basic/Expert) as well as any pre-1999 type of RPG produced by the classic gaming companies of the 70s and 80s (TSR, Chaosium, FGU, FASA, GDW, etc). We also support retro-clone or simulacrum type gaming that copies the old style of RPGs (Swords & Wizardry, Castles & Crusades, and others). ANY RPG games are welcome at the Con, be it D&D 4e, Pathfinder, or something we haven't even heard of, just be sure you can fill a table with 5-6 people before you ask to have it added to the schedule...

Our next convention dates are: Thursday June 7, 2012 @ 1300 until Sunday June 10, 2012 @ 1800

Early Bird registration opens June 10, 2011 and runs until July 31, 2011. During the Early Bird Registration period, you can save $5.00 on the full Con registration fee, buy Con T-Shirts, and purchase discounted raffle tickets in preset quantities. (you can also purchase Vendor Tables & Shelves at a discounted price as well during the month of July)

Please look around, read up and register if you plan to attend. You must pay for one day or a weekend before you are able to register for a game. (though game registration doesn't open until midnight April 15th, 2012)

If you want to sign up to run a game, please contact the con event coordinator at mikebadolato@ntrpgcon.com

The Con will be held at the Holiday Inn Bedford DFW Airport Area West: 3005 West Airport Freeway, Bedford, TX  76021 (www.holidayinn.com/bedforddfwwest).  We have a special rate for con attendees that is in effect until May 24th, 2012 so don't delay in getting your reservations. The direct link for reservations at the Con rate is posted in the forums.

Mercedes Lackey's Song of Vengence

Update on Suzette Haden Elgin

Her husband George asked me to pass this along:

Hello to you all. At last I have something to report about Suzette's condition.

On the ninth of January Suzette submitted to a battery of tests at the Schmeiding Center for Seniors in Springdale, designed to determine whether she had developed Alzheimer's disease or some form of dementia. They wouldn't give us any information at the conclusion of the tests, but insisted that her doctor would discuss the results at her next appointment with him. We drove up to Huntsville ( a 60 mile round trip) for her visit on the 17th of January only to find that the Schmeiding Center had sent the results to the Fayetteville office (only 10 minutes from our apartment). 

We then made an appointment with her Doctor for the following week and found that the Neuropsychologist at the Schmeiding Center had told Suzette's doctor the they could not offer a firm diagnosis without seeing a PET scan first, and that they had made an appointment for Suzette to have one at a facility in Tulsa that they approved of! I told them that Suzette could not possibly go to Tulsa because of he Diverticulitus, and I went ahead and scheduled one at the local Highland Oncology Clinic, which turned out to be perfectly acceptable. Then we had to make another appointment with her doctor to have him tell us the final diagnosis.

It seems that there is a quite diminished hypermetabolic activity within the bilateral frontal and temporal lobes which is nearly symmetric. There is also symmetric activity within the bilateral parietal and occipital lobes

What all of this gobbledegook boils down to, is that Suzette has developed a Fronto -Temperol Dementia. A condition that develops more rapidly than Alzheimer's disease, and does not respond to any form of treatment or medication. Somedays, for hours at a time, her behavior is almost normal. Most of the time she has no problem with filling up her day. She reads all kinds of books, and sometimes reads them over and over again. We are fortunate in living near a used book store, that has a vast assortment of titles that I can buy for 26 cents apiece. I've been buying 30 to 40 every 2 or 3 weeks. She reads them all! Then I pass them on to anyone who wants them.

When we first moved here, 15 months ago, I bought her a new Macintosh iMac computer. She started off using it daily, and said she was writing a new science fiction story. After a few months she stopped working on the story, and then stopped using the computer altogether. Now She won't use it even to read or answer her email.

For Christmas She wanted a laptop computer and a cellphone. She hasn't even started up the laptop, and she can't remember from day to day, how to use the cell phone. It's a very simple one, ideal for Seniors, called the Jitterbug. She won't answer the "hardwired" phone when it rings, and won't communicate in any way with anyone except immediate family, and a very limited way at that.

No radio. No TV. No form of entertainment except her books.

I'm giving her the best care that I can. I go out every morning for an hour or so. I have a cup of coffee, go to the grocery or bank, or gas up the car. Just the essentials. She sits in her Grandmother Bertha's rocking chair and reads, or more recently, sleeps. She seems OK with that.

She keeps moving her bedtime forward. She wants to eat our evening meal at 5pm, and then She goes upstairs and goes to bed. I have tried to encourage her to stay up later, but it just doesn't happen. Then, She's awake around 3am, and I have to keep sending her back to bed until at least 5 or 5:30 am.

She hasn't left the house for anything except visits to the doctor's office for about 15 months, and I just recently asked her if she wanted me to look for a small, used RV, (that has, of course, a bathroom), so that we could go for daytime drives or even short overnighters. She thought about it for a few days, and much to my suprise, said,"Yes,I'd like that very much". I waited a few days and asked again, and then again, and each time I got the same answer. So I did it!

Maybe it will be therapeutic to get her out of the house for short periods of time. It surely can't hurt. We could even go to someone's house and ask someone to come out to the RV and visit for a few minutes….. Maybe? We'll see.

I've rambled on for long enough. I've just tried to answer a few questions that I've been asked over the last year. The sad part is, She's just not ever going to get better. but I'm trying to make her days a little brighter. .

Thanks to all of you . . Family and Many, Many Friends.

George